how much of body positivity is saying “your body is okay but you better be putting AN EFFORT into looking good” ie - performing beauty labor that isn’t expected of men, ie wearing “flattering” clothes that are sexy or stylish?
it’s annoying because skinny girls never ride for thick or fat girls EVER, never reblog pictures of them or mention shit bout body positivity and uplifting the spirits of thick and fat girls like I never see y’all advocating for curves and extra fat on the thighs or hips or anything but when Nicki goes “Fuck skinny bitches” y’all are suddenly activists for self-image and body positivity? get gone you fakes and liars. Fuck all y’all
When I see fat-positivity posts get hijacked with “but skinny girls—” all I can think is that bird meme “I’m uncomfortable when things not about me” or w/e. Like honestly.
Also I should mention, this isn’t meant to minimize the body issues that slim girls feel. There is a place and a time for that discussion and fat positivity posts and discussions are NOT that time. General discussion on body positivity? Go for it. General discussion on dysphoria? Go for it. General discussion of societal beauty standards? Go for it. General discussion of E.D.’s etc? Go for it. Skinny-shaming and skinny-issue specific areas? GO FOR IT. There are TONS of places to air concerns and problems around this subject without taking posts about the very real issue of fat shaming. You sound like a guy who says “BUT MEN TOO” and like it honestly makes me want to push your face into a carpet so please do not do this thank
Dear fat girls wearing crop tops: please. Continue. Don’t let anyone tell you you can’t. You’re so fucking cute!!! You look absolutely fabulous, if I might add, and your self worth isn’t determined on how men see you.